just caught Evan Almighty with phillip. Morgan Freeman's character aka God was questioned by the lead character Evan Baxter why was he chosen to build the ARK, God said this at the last parts of the show. "Do you think when you pray for patience, God will give u patience or will He give you opportunities to excercise that? or when u pray for better family relations u'll be surrounded by this warm fuzzy family feeling rather then given opportunities to improve on it?" and so Evan Baxter had promised to change the world when he was elected congressman after a successful campaign. and he prayed that God will help him change the world. building of the Ark was exactly the opportunity God gave Evan to do so. (details of the show pls read the sypnosis)

well my point being after hearing that statement made by Morgan Freeman it changed my perspective. and thinking back its rather true when i prayed for more patience at home. at times it seems that more arguements arised rather than peace. so now i see it as opportunities to excercise my faith and be patient whenever it comes to the brink of arguement with anyone in the family and not to start rattling off like fish mongers. for all these will come to past. yes you've have a point to make. but it isnt wat you want to say but how u say it that matters.